Marcus Malesela

  This is part of my daily newsletter ¬ Please subscribe if you’re interested in practical psychology for everyday life. Because Someone was told me that I should not add more sh**t in the world, I devoted my time to write and publish my work every day. More women are leaving the corporate to start their businesses, and demanding their share in the high tables. These women spoke with their feet.  The words that are spoken and making headlines;  Mommies no longer want to be 'Prisoners of men's Dreams' New rules and the establishment of their realms are revealed by their actions, for the new era is for talent competition.  'The mommy truck' is not the point, the question is whether there is a job for Daddy in the future, I suggest that women are going to be in the drives set of virtually every corporation, only 3 percent of us are going to work in factories by 2001, Mommy in the drives-set and Daddy at home washing the dishes, is the fate we male face in the years a...

  This is part of my LinkedIn Writing Club, To stay tuned, Follow me @  #marcusmalesela Remember how when we were young growing up, and the way we to get through rejections and objections from our parents.  Buddha said we should 'believe nothing, no matter where we read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.'  So, this quote could be interpreted as more or less saying: Keep believing what you believe, as well as anything that confirms those existing beliefs.  People already believe what they think agrees with their “logic” which is often faulty and “common sense” which is usually another word for “what we accept without thinking deeply”.    I remember in the old days before I could even find JOY in my writing - I wrote my first ever article and forwarded it to a friend to view and give me feedback on my writing, His response was: 'Buddy there is enough sh**t out there already wri...

                                                    Photo by Andrea Piacquadio on pexels  This is part of my LinkedIn writing club, To stay tuned, Follow me @ # marcusmalesela   In every area of life we are witnessing failure at an all-time high ~ people are failing, failing in politics, failing as government heads, and failing as educators.  It's a shame that this mad cycle doesn't show any signs to end.  When does this mad cycle of unnecessary failure end? We will begin to see winners emerging from the ashes only and only when teachers once again begin teaching and students begin learning the lesson.  We hear parents who still blame and shame the school systems, some teachers are so frustrated having gone to college for almost 6 - 7 years to earn a degree in teaching. yet having no one interested in learning. I know I hate...

                                                                            Photo by  Vansh Sharma            He ain't through with you; you're still in the process.   We all have heard this statement, ' If only I knew then what I know now' It appears that our lives would be far different but that didn't happen because; You're still in the process ~ God ain't through with you, He is still shaping you.  The maturing soul recognizes that there is a certain dynamic that comes from growing through life's related challenges and learning lessons from challenges that ultimately develop us into our true selves.  Some of these lessons we learn should not be avoided since they help to shape us into what God desires for ou...

I like chickens, not because I'm a chicken.  But  because of the Chicken-mayo sandwich that I just ate for breakfast.  Let's talk about the Eagle, on the other hand.  Uhm..... Let's pass, I only know about Chickens and that's because my father dreamt of owning a Chicken farm one day, but that didn't happen.  You want to know why, Life happened and as the saying goes: 'life is too short.'  He used to tell me about Chickens, and how much he's going to make from the Chicken farm.    Boring tale right?  Yes, and I will tell you why.  All I wanted to know or hear as a young men were stories about the mighty Eagle, because I had never seen one rather on a magazine or television.  You can imagine the life I've lived, a boring one not in the farm or the rural areas but a dusty and shanty place in the local areas called Winnie Mandela (Tembisa, South Africa)  Okay, enough about my father and his dream 'Chicken farm'..... All I wanted wa...

 Finding fulfilment is the ultimate human goal  Photo by Emily Ranquist 'Real is something you are – not something you need to learn, you don't need to learn what you already know, you embrace it'  ____ [Derak Sokaris] I talk much of the Bible these days, not because I studied theology or something – This is all thanks to Jorina for nourishing the seed that was once planted by my mother, and with that, I choose to speak with the world through my writing.  How we judge ourselves based on all that we have or our circumstances, To think about it's just so sad or better how we compare ourselves to peeps because that's how the world has turned out to be these days – If you cook a good meal today for your family it does not count until you make a video of you on Facebook or any social platform.  Why don't we look to our self, and judge ourselves by our abilities – not by how we see the world.  You gotta love Seneca's quote for what I know it just gives me chills ...